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It’s hard to believe it’s only been a week since I met up with Katie for a lunch date in Michigan!!  If I’m being completely honest, I’ve been sick since I got back on Saturday night.  Up until yesterday, I hadn’t eaten since Monday.  I ended up in the ER for fluids and drugs on Wednesday… and I’m still not totally healed, but at least I’m keeping liquids in my body for more than 10 minutes now.  YAY!

Now, keeping with this month’s theme… let’s get to the good stuff and talk about professional success in 2017… better known as the moments that have brought me great joy (among all the tough ones – devos, I’m looking at you).

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Professional Success in 2017

  • I have been asked to serve on the Cal Tech Advisory Board.  Somewhere in heaven my dad is saying, “YES!  She’s finally using the engineering degree to do something positive!”  While I don’t know about ALL THAT, I do know that I’m super excited and totally honored to have been asked to serve with such a great group of professionals.  (Let’s just appreciate Sara-with-engineering-degree, shall we?)


  • In other professional accomplishments, I found out that I’m definitely presenting at TACAC (got 1 out of 2 proposals accepted!), so you’ll definitely see me living out at least one of my 2017 travel plans in San Antonio in April!  I’m super excited about this because I’m presenting with some great colleagues on a topic that is sure to ruffle a few feathers… and we all know how much I enjoy doing that.  😉
  • Last week I got an email from a college on Ohio letting me know that another college in Ohio (lol) had named me as one of the people they wanted on their visit program… so for a few days in March, I’ll be headed to Ohio to visit a handful of schools.  I’m not going to lie – it’s nice to know that people recognize the work that we’re doing!  (Is this the year of the midwest for me?  Two trips to Michigan, one to Indiana, and another one to Ohio??)
  • I had a promising call last week with an institution about one of my favorite students.  It had been a tough morning (and tough to connect), but the time she took with me to listen to my talk about why my kid is SO amazing just encouraged me in so many ways.  Sometimes I forget what a gift it is when someone will take time to listen to me…  which kind of sounds jerky to say… but a lot of time, we fire off applications and never have a conversation about them.  This one was important though… and I appreciate the time that this woman took to talk to me.  Here’s hoping.  I can’t wait to tell you the story of this scholar.  I hope it has a happy ending.  She sent me poetry called Love All this week and it’s the most beautiful, human damn thing I’ve ever read…  Oh, I need this to work out.

“Love all, especially the ones who tell you not to.”

  • I know it’s early in the year but what are you proud of this year?  Even if it’s just a seemingly small thing, I want you to celebrate your professional success in 2017.  Brag on yourself.  Lean in.  Be excited.  Do something for you.  AND ABOVE ALL ELSE…

Nevertheless, persist.

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  • Katie Elizabeth - How has it already been a week?! And HOWWWW did we not take a single picture?! Blogger fail.ReplyCancel

  • Olya @ The Siberian American - I’m so sorry you had to go to the ER! I hope all that is behind you! Way to crush your professional goals, lady! You are such a rockstar. 🙂ReplyCancel

  • Sarah Elizabeth - What an amazing beginning to 2017! I love that people around the country are affirming the work y’all are doing, and that you and your students are being given so many wonderful opportunities to showcase your passion and their talent & intelligence. Reading your blog is always such an uplifting experience for me and continues to inspire me!ReplyCancel

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  • Mandy - Beautiful images of Cinque Terra! I’ve been once before, but I don’t think I gave it the time or credit it deserved. I’d love to return.

    One question – I read about having to join a list or something to visit now? Like they only let so many people into the cities and you have to let them know of your travel plans ahead of time? Do you know anything about that? If I ever do go back, it would be nice to know ahead of time if anything like that is necessary. (It might just be for the hiking, but I’m not sure.)ReplyCancel

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Oh man.  It’s been a little heavy around these parts lately.  I’ve just been s-t-r-e-s-s-e-d… and things have been SO frantic lately.  I did, however, board a flight to Michigan yesterday afternoon with one of my staff members and a few of our scholars…  so I’m reporting live from Michigan AND hoping to enjoy a few short days away from everything.  Remember a few days ago when I said my intention for February would be to choose joy?  That’s where I’m at today…

Live from Michigan – Choosing Joy

  • You know you’ve made a friend when she’s willing to drive from her town in Michigan to the small one where you’re staying.  In addition to the work I’m doing here, I’m sneaking in a lunch date with one of my favorite bloggers that keep it real today: Katie!!
  • When we arrived at the admissions office last night, one of our kids stops, looks, and dives headfirst into a snowbank.  Because she could.  (That’s actually the reason she gave us.)  It was really the most magical (and hilarious) things EVER.  I really wish we had a video.

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  • While we were waiting for admissions to pick us up from the airport, one of our students pulled out her ukulele and started to sing and play.  We LOVED it (of course), but other people started to watch.  I had this insanely proud moment when I saw people stop to listen to our angel sing.  It was just one of those moments when it seemed like the world just stopped for a few minutes… and that felt really good.
  • We’re staying at a cute little B&B across from campus.  It’s my first time staying at a B&B and after our sweet hostess showed us to our rooms, I wasn’t sure what to do… but Jordie and I were starving and the only place we knew to be open was the on-campus late night eatery.  I looked at her in all seriousness and asked, “Are we allowed to leave a B&B?”   She died laughing and then put that on the group text.   (In other news, we BOTH felt like we were sneaking out when we tried to head out to campus… so there IS that.)

Happy Friday my friends!!  Tell me what’s making you happy RIGHT now.  Where are you finding joy to focus on??


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This month has seemed long.  It seems like ages that I wrote about my goal to live 2017 with deliberate intention.  January was oddly liberating in some respects and emotionally debilitating in others.

January 1 – 15, 2017 – Intention for our seniors

The first few weeks of the month were truly focused on serving those seniors who were wrapping up their college applications.  This meant lots of editing, long nights, and trying to remain focused on how to help them, instead of succumbing to the fear of what was to come on January 20.  My students inspired me.  They kept me pushing forward.  By January 15, they had finally turned the corner of fear.  They wrote beautiful essays about being raised in a blue dot in the middle of a big red state and the safety they felt because of that.  They wrote essays about becoming activists and advocates.  It was no longer just about what their education would mean for their families – it was also about what they want to give the world.  And I was proud.

January 15 – 22, 2017 – Intention for my staff

I lead a beautiful group of world changers… and as I focused on my students, I also focused on what my staff could further contribute to changing the world for our kiddos.  I had to make a tough decision that impacted my staff, and though I know I made the right decision for our program, it made me very sad.  I thought about how I could continue to support the professional development of my staff and provide them a venue for continuing to grow as professionals.  We held a staff/support professional development meeting on January 20, and I asked them to lean on each other.  To value to teamwork.  To cheerlead for each other.  To learn and teach the SAT.  To realize that we have great power in our hands and we shouldn’t let it go to waste.  Together, we laughed, we cried, we complained, and we celebrated.

January 23 – 27, 2017 – Intention for the program

I was asked to be on the advisory board of a Top 10 institution (more on that later!)…. and the entire experience left me humbled and questioning my own stratospheric rise in the field of college access.  Newsflash: I’ve always dominated my field.  I forget that I was awarded Young Engineer of the Year within 5 years of graduating from college.  I spent a lot of time in data.  Understanding what institutions are serving our kids well (and not so well).  Understanding why there’s a disconnect between the work we are doing and the DOE/state data capture.  Making connections towards partnerships.  Helping my mentors understand what’s going on in Dallas and why the sudden policy shifts of this week were terrifying to me.  Asking for help in taking our program to the next level.  Trying to refine our goals.

January 27 – 31, 2017 – Intention for February

I ended this month with a meeting with one of my favorite #girlboss mentors.  She’s the parent of one of my kids – a wildly successful professional, a champion for women and equity in the workplace, and just all around #lifegoals for me.  As I sat in her corner office that overlooks downtown Dallas, I marveled at her resilience.  She also had a tough year in 2015, but every time I see her, I’m in awe of how she bounced back.  On Saturday, she shared something with me about choosing joy during those troubling times.

And it that’s what stayed with me.  Her deliberate choice to choose joy.

Later this week (and again later this month), I will board flights to Michigan with a number of our students who have never flown anywhere – let alone across the country.  What an incredible experience that I was not only able to facilitate that, but also that I will get to be a part of their journey.

So.  Like my mentor, I plan to choose joy for February.  It doesn’t mean that I will ignore the things going on in the world around us (and you shouldn’t either), but I will embrace the fantastic opportunity that I have to do life in such a meaningful way.

That I am surrounded by people who inspire, encourage, and challenge me.

That I am recognized as a leader in my professional field and champion for access.

That I get to make a difference at all.

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When I was in college, I was subjected to my first up close and personal experience with the abuse of civil rights (and thus began my crusade for social justice)… One night, I received an email of support from Noble Laureate Peter Agre. His message was simple: “His fight is our fight and it has just begun.”


Those words could NOT be more true today.


If you want to tell me that trump’s actions are in any possible way acceptable, I encourage you to read this essay, written by a minor child, about his experience as a refugee.  If you can’t bear to read the truth, then I ask you to consider (at least) this single sentence:

 People say “the truth never dies” but in the country and place where I am from, the truth is never revealed for the poor and lower castes.  The truth is buried with them.”  

If that doesn’t resonate with you, please try this one on for size:

“Poverty and diseases surrounded us like the air itself.  Children died of malaria and there were no hospitals nearby for medical treatment.  Contaminated water caused people to vomit and diarrhea, and there were no warm clothes to wear against the harsh winter winds. Hunger was everywhere, and everyone was hopeless and waiting for death.”

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I ran as fast as I could with my bare feet to see what was going on. A bunch of people were gathered in one of the community centers, and in the middle of the group a scared man was talking about a dead body he saw near the jungle. I was a little kid, so my friends and I hurried to see for ourselves. When we got there all we saw was a ton of people, so we decided to sneak in because we were small and could squeeze through the crowd.


When I got closer I smelled charcoal. All I could see was a burned and naked body. It was a girl. Elder people were standing around and crying. I felt sad and scared for the parents, and shortly after I arrived the police came and took the girl away. Rumors started a week later; some people said she was raped and then burned to destroy the evidence.  


Everybody in the community was talking about what happened. My mother used to work with the Women’s Forum, and she dealt a lot with raising awareness for women’s violence, child trafficking, and discrimination. Because of her job, she had good knowledge of the case. Many people came to our house to talk, and I heard them saying something about the caste. The girl was from a lower caste and she was having a relationship with a boy from a higher one. They wanted to get married but their unification was impossible. The boy’s parents refused to agree. 


In my community there were three different castes: the lower caste, the middle caste, and the high caste. The high caste was for rich people, and they did not allow members of the other castes to enter their houses. They refused to eat food someone from a lower caste touched.  They considered the lowest caste impure, and they never married with someone from either of the other two castes. Inter-caste marriage of any kind was forbidden. This tradition has been enforced for hundreds of years, and in our camp there was never a time that an arranged marriage happened out of caste. 


The caste was a serious problem, yet everybody believed and followed the custom begun by our first ancestors. The community people were extremely strict. They would do anything to stop a marriage between castes.Since the girl was known to be innocent, I wondered if the boy’s parents had found someone to kill her. Other people were saying the same, but like it was nothing. I started to worry that the same thing could happen to my younger sisters one day- and what would I do?


I asked my mother about situation because I was scared for my sisters. “What does it mean that the girl was murdered and the boy is fine?” I asked. “What if that girl was my sister?” I kept looking for answers and asking her if anyone would do anything. My mother explained that since the girl was burned, there couldn’t be any evidence for a court. To calm me down, she talked to the director of the Women’s Forum. He also said that there was no evidence and it would be a mistake to go against the higher caste family. In this country, the police and the law are very corrupt. Rich people and high caste people can get whatever they want.


People say “the truth never dies” but in the country and place where I am from, the truth is never revealed for the poor and lower castes. The truth is buried with them. There is nothing that I could have done, or my mother could have done, or anyone could have done even if there was evidence. Situations like this haven’t just happened in my camp, they are still happening in communities throughout this country today.  


Even after coming to America, there is still a sense of discrimination towards people from the lower caste in our community.  The older generation does not want it to end.  It is a tradition they grew up with, and since many are uneducated they believe it should not be forgotten. A few weeks ago, one of my friends decided to marry someone from a different caste and her parents would not allow it. In America though, parents do not have the right to stop a marriage for simple discrimination. The marriage happened, but now elder people in the community are gossiping. Whenever I hear them I remind them that we are in the United States now, and the old caste system with its discrimination is gone.  Unfortunately, I don’t think that generation will change. My constant comments cannot improve a lifetime of habit.  


Nelson Mandela once said, “No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than it’s opposite.“The only way forward for our community is for my generationto begin teaching this tolerance to the next.  By continuing to speak out, I believe that younger people will slowly develop the mentality that the discrimination of the caste is unjust. Then, when this slow shift in thought happens, our community will grow in equality.


Essay #2

Being born as a refugee means a life full of challenges every single day. Some of the obstacles I faced in the camp were not only difficult;they were dangerous. I have many memories: running away from my hut because the river was about to flood our home, my body aching and shivering but still moving to safety. Losing all of our possessions and starting over. Eating once a day when rations were low so my sisters could have more. Although each event left me a little broken inside, I endured and I survived. I never stopped believing in the future.


Poverty and diseases surrounded us like the air itself.  Children died of malaria and there were no hospitals nearby for medical treatment.  Contaminated water caused people to vomit and diarrhea, and there were no warm clothes to wear against the harsh winter winds. Hunger was everywhere, and everyone was hopeless and waiting for death. My father worked day and night to provide my family with food, but he was never able to earn enough to fulfill our essential needs.  No matter how long he worked, we were as poor as before.  Despite the fact that I lived in darkness, I had family members beside me to support and encourage me to work hard.


Living in the camp taught me more than survival; it taught me to be smart and creative in solving my problems. When I had to give up school completely for a month to work, I never stopped learning. I read books and did math problems at night before allowing myself to sleep. Although we had limited education with inexperienced teachers, I never stopped dreaming about college. During summers I worked as a gravel maker: I carried and broke stones with a hammer in order to provide builders with materials. Payment was two rupees for one bucket of gravel, and I saved half of what I earned for school and gave the rest to my parents. Even though I realistically knew I would never have enough for higher education, I never stopped. 


I studied hard in school and often rose to the top of my classes. Somehow, I wanted to show the world that this refugee kid could become a great man. Finally, as Newton’s third law states, “For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.” My hard work and dedication paid off. A group called the International Organization for Migration proposed a plan to allow refugees to resettle in seven different nations including the United States. After a discussion with my parents we decided that America was the best place to secure my sisters and me a better future. More than anything, my parents didn’t want us to have to survive the way that they did; poor and uneducated. We moved through the application process,identification checks, and medical exams until one day we were declared as legal immigrants.  From that moment I started dreaming and believing that my goal was not too far. I worried about moving to an unknown land and leaving my childhood friends. However, the promise of America called us onward. We walked away from the country where I was born.


My family and I arrived in the United States, and my goal of education could finally become reality. I had a dream in my eyes and hope filled my heart.  America is known as a land of freedom, inventors, and opportunities, and I knew that I would have to make the most of this new life. I didn’t realize that there would be so many obstacles to overcome. It was hard to adapt to the environment,learn a new language, confront a different standard of living, and face discrimination. With patience and resilience, I refused to give up my goal.  I worked hard to achieve academically and I realized that education is not a desire- it’s a need. My mindset is fully focused on the path of success because after thirteen years of living in darkness, I had finally found a light of opportunities.


When my parents moved from Texas to Massachusetts, I chose to remain behind with my grandparents -who wanted to stay. It seemed dishonorable to leave two older people without English skills to exist on their own. Now we survive on their social security income, and I am fulfilling their needs with the best support I can provide. My parents are unable to help us, so I have learned to be careful with our bills, payments, and expenses on our small income. 


Through my experiences, I have gained courage in myself and a belief in my path towards my future. My desire for success has been strengthened through the hardships I encountered throughout my life. I am now tough, smart, and resilient. My fight will continue until I become someone capable of leaving a great legacy behind.

#GetWoke.  #StayWoke.  This is not normal nor is it okay.  

First they came for the Socialists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Socialist.

Then they came for the Trade Unionists, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Trade Unionist.

Then they came for the Jews, and I did not speak out—
Because I was not a Jew.

Then they came for me—and there was no one left to speak for me.” — Martin Niemoller 


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